My personal antidote to “what if I fail?”

by | May 11, 2018 | Coach Training

Have you ever felt held back because of fear of failing?

Being a woman entrepreneur means we have to recreate how we define success AND failure.

For guys, success is often defined by the numbers…how many units sold, how much money made, and “did we beat out the competition?”

For women, success can feel a lot more complex.

Just counting units sold or money made?

That can leave us feeling as if we sold out our soul.

Beating out the competition?

That goes against the grain of our feminine nature that values inclusiveness and our desire to empower others.

For women, success is a soulful integration of bettering our best, empowering others, strengthening our emotional core, and yes, making significant income.

And we tap into our true source of power: Faith.

Because faith is stronger than fear.

So what is the first step?

Redefining what we call failing. For me, failing can only happen if I don’t try.

But what if I DO try, and things don’t work out the way I envision?

Here are my favorite go-to reframes you can use to be brave every day, because it’s time your brilliance shines through:

  • I will try again
  • I will do something different the next time
  • I will have learned something incredibly useful
  • I will say, “How fascinating!”
  • I will be smarter & wiser because of the experience
  • I will congratulate myself for trying
  • I will start over
  • I will have a great story to share with others, later
  • I am stronger and tougher than any failure
  • In my heart, I know I am unstoppable

Believing in YOU always!

Love,

Kendall

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My personal antidote to “what if I fail?”